Alohaaa !
How are you all today! I am feeling super extra fine!
Me have something which I would like to discuss with all of you..
Let’s say you have been visiting a site/blog regularly and leaving comments on it. On the other hand, this site’s owner has never ever visited your site or left a comment on your site/blog!
Now you don’t know the reason behind that, this person might be busy (although you see their comments on other sites) or maybe your site was not a site which he/she would be interested in!
Would you still be active on their site/blog and post comments? Or would you just visit and be a silent reader? Or would you stop visiting them?!
12 comments:
if the person is interesting enough and you like thier sites, its ok, there shouldnt be peronal feelings on why they dont visit or comment on your blog..
its ok, i write and comments on some blog but the never bother with mine and that is fine, i am not in thier circle of intrest..
Its not always a 2 ways street plus there is no rules in blogging..
Just do whatever makes you feel comfortable and do it for yourself and not for others :)
Yes it bothers me not to drop a comment from time to time, well I don't think that I'm that boring :P
but I won't stop visiting his bolg if I was intrested in :)
Not at all :) If his/her site is interesting, I will still continue visiting :)
mmmmmm yes i will be active no matter what f i like a blog as u have too siso ^_^
keep it up ^^
I totally agree with Standy! It's not like a comment for a comment.. Sometimes that person is following your blog and really like it but doesn't have something to add and that's why they don't comment.
Don't take things personally :)
Well i don't have a blog but can imagine how bad it feels for you not to have comments on your blog , or for knowing that your friend has a blog and doesn't bother to comment on yours yet you comment on hers .
don't comment on those who don't comment on yours :)
lulu
Standy..
"there is no rules in blogging"
liked it :)
I agree.. I didnt bring this subject because I feel this way.. Its just nice to see how others think..
For me I wudnt mind if I was commenting on some blogs and they are not even visiting my site :P
Zainab,,
hahaha no you are not boring! but yeah to be realistic it might bother some people and its okay to get bothered :P
C..
arent you such a sweet heart!
Sadness..
thanks dear for the compliment
Vainglorious..
Yeah I agree.. I sometimes like some posts but I get speechless lol I dunno what to comment :P
Lulu..
Its nice to see you here :) welcome and thanks for commenting..
well, yeah sure you sometimes wud feel bad when you see no one is commenting on your blog, for me I get kinda upset when I see no one commenting on my posts but still I dun stop writing:P my blog is the only way I can let everything inside me go away.. I can be upset I can cry I can complain and people dont have to handle all this which I truly understand!
I wud respectively disagree with you onr your last point, that I shudnt comment for those who dont comment on my blog.. Perhaps they are not interested in my drama :P lol
A very nice and complicated question
usually I comment on the blogs that I see they share something in common with me. If they did comment back on one of my posts then it's a sign that they would follow my blog. Then we would keep following each other.
If they didn't then they don't want to follow and I can just be a silent reader
I would do the same for the new bloggers who comment on my blog. I would do my best finding a nice post on their blog and comment. Showing appreciation for they passed by my blog and comment :)
You know some bloggers are selfish and this is a big concern of the social networking. Many of them only care about more followers more comments and more ads thus more money. They are commercial and I don't like bloggers think commercial
I used to comment on political blogs and I made good friends who talk on political matters way better than me. I barely comment on their blog nowadays though I comment and keep in touch with them via twitter. They liked it
Having or leaving comments is not the goal to me. the goal is interaction.
No interaction == selfish self-sufficient ppl networking
interaction == social networking
great post :)
cheers
I would reply to you as you replied to my post!
" A very nice answer"
Really I liked the way you answered the question, I guess no one thought about it the way you did, you were so honest and I liked the way you think!
Well I guess we all usually comment on blogs which share something in common with us or to some posts which are interesting to us!
I agree in encourging new bloggers and commenting on their posts, I like to do this too and I like to comment back on those who comments on my blog, and by that as you said we try to build or to interact with each others and I like doin that :)
I liked your comment so much! Thanks for it :)
i Dont own a Blog but i am a Huge Blog-a-Holic Girl i check alot of blogs but Never comment . but now i feel like commenting on urs :p
awww! I am flattered :$ lol
well I hope ur always in the mood of commenting :D! Its nice to see new faces around :)
try making a blog? why not ;)!
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