Sunday, October 9, 2011

Wedding Ring!



"A ring is round, it turns forever and that's how long we'll be together!"

What does the wedding ring means to u? Is it so important for you to wear it? Is it so important for you that your spouse wear it? Will you force your spouse to wear the ring?

Married people.. Do you wear your ring?

For me I love seeing couples wearing the ring.. It might not really represent how deep their relationship is, but still it is nice to see them wearing it!

12 comments:

I'm Farsilla said...

well tho im not yet married but im engaged. n yes my fiance n i do wear our engagement ring. n that ring really means a lot to me :D it just shows that he is a part of my life n gonna be my hubby soon inshaallah

Silla

amalikrunner said...

Glad to see you around. During my past marriage (I always insisted on my x-wife on wearing her wedding ring) and I would do the same.

I personally found/find that wearing ring represents our marriage bonds and keeps us grounded in certain situations.

I believe it makes me think of her while I am not around and brings a smile in my face when I am away and take a look at my ring.

The above is from my x-marriage and is my opinion - however some people do not like to wear rings despite the relationship being deep or not, married or engaged.

On the contary there are countless ideas of the origin and significance of the wedding ring, and just for the information marriages have been symbolised by the wearing of a ring (It usually meant and still does the lady or man is not available and no one should circulate around them.

I usually when I talk to females (If I find some sort of attraction I tend to just divert the attention elsewhere and try to spot the ring on the left hand (finger) and once spotted 'My script goes' Well I have to go, I'll catch you later :P lol

Sincerely, A Malik 'Marriage is a lifetime prison sentence with lots of pleasure'

swera said...

i used to have arguments with my husband regarding this issue but now i c it's not that important coz love or marriage bond cannot be represented in a material thing! it's supposed to be in the heart! but it makes me happy when he remembers n wears it when we go out!

i do wear my wedding ring to everywhere except work! coz i dont want it to get lost! but im planning on getting me a cheaper one to wear for certain places!

Butterfly Chick said...

Silla,
Inshalla he will.. All the best dear in ur life and marriage.. Its nice to know that there are men who stick to the ring and wear it!

Butterfly Chick said...

Malik..
"You always insisted on ur xwife to wear it"? Seriously? :P well I thought women wear it and ask men "depresetly" to wear it lol.. Its nice to know that you are one of the men who wear his ring!
& as usual.. Your words made me smile, specially when you said that it makes u think of her while ur not around! It really made me smile.. Its so romantic!
& yeah.. Some people just dun like wearing rings! I dunno why but they just dont like it :P! So yeah it doesnt mean that their marriage is not going well! But again its nice to see them wearin it!
Hahaha we girls do the same :P the first thing we "well by we I mean me and my friends" spot is the man's finger :P LOL if he is taken then no we are not interested! Though many girls are interested in married men! lol

Butterfly Chick said...

Swera..
True.. Love and marriage cant be represented in this.. I totally agree.. Some men/women just dun like wearing a ring! You can ask him nicely to wear it when u go out together at least or when you are invited somewhere.. That will be nice :).. But dun insist too much or that might start another argument!
& abt a cheaper ring, many girls do this, they usually buy two rings one for special events and one for normal days.. I am not sure if I will do this or not though :P..
Good luck in ur marriage life dear :)

amalikrunner said...

Yeah. I've seen the increase of females showing interest in married men due to believing he is committed or it's just that evil excitement. The thriller involved...

You're welcome, Take care.

Sincerely, A Malik 'Sometimes you have to go back in order to return'

C said...

For me its important! It's merely my opinion :D I would be happier to see my significant other wearing the ring :D

Butterfly Chick said...

Malik..
LOL yeah I really dunno why they are interested in married men :P !!

C..
I hope he always make u happy by wearing it :** all the best sis :)

Bo-Ya3gooob said...

To me i dont thing the ring is that important and i dont really care if my future wife wears it or not... As for me i already wear rings so im used to it, and i like wearing them...

Butterfly Chick said...

Bo-Ya3goob..
well then since u wear rings u wont have any problems wearing the wedding ring :P thats good ! :P

Standy said...

i think wearing the ring makes it better.. i donno bas i like it.. it might not mean alot but its nice :)