Monday, September 19, 2011

Why Men Marry B*tches




Excuse me for the title & the pic..! It’s a book I finally decided to read! I am just done reading sing you home for Jodi Picoult and decided to go for something else than a story.. I had this book long time ago and I didn’t read it because all my friends told me that why men love b*tches is way nicer! I was searching between my books for it, I believe I bought it but I guess I didn’t! so anyway, yesterday I started reading few pages of this book and it turned out interesting.. the author here doesn’t mean by b*tches as a bad girl! It actually means a strong girl! I will leave you with a review of this book.. I am pretty sure a lot of you read it or at least heard about it..

Why Men Marry B*tches: A Woman's Guide to Winning Her Man's Heart

Make him chase you...Until you catch him.
Never shy and always laugh-out-loud funny, Sherry Argov's Why Men Marry B*tches is a sharp-witted manifesto that shows women how to transform a casual relationship into a committed one. With the grittiest of girlfriend-to-girlfriend detail, Argov removes the kid gloves and explains why being extra nice doesn't necessarily mean he'll be more devoted. The guide shares real-life "no holds barred" interviews with men who answer the following in raw detail:
How do men manipulate a relationship to keep it casual?
Do men deliberately push women's emotional buttons?
How can she convince him commitment was his idea?
How can she invite a proposal without saying a word?



Whether you are single, married, recently separated, or just fed up with your family members telling you to fetch a husband because time is running out, Why Men Marry B*tches is the must-have guide that will show you how to exude confidence, win his heart, and get the love and respect you deserve.

15 comments:

C said...

Wow the family nag you to fetch a husband thingy is really annoying! After I finished reading my piles of books, I'm definitely reading this one!

Butterfly Chick said...

C..
Go for it! let us read the same book and talk abt it later :P

amalikrunner said...

It is a great book. I've read it. It is somewhat related to 'Men from mars women from somewhere not sure about the title.

However - not all male would marry strong personality females. It has some drawbacks. I'd prefer a modest female, with dreams and a drive for life and compassion for others.

But anyways - no one should jump in a relationship for anyone but their own sake. Time does not run you, we run out. Time has been the same from the past 1000 years.

You can take it slow, even though you may be moving slow, atleast you're not moving backwards, don't rush - you can be alone for a very long time, no one must be there to fill you. IT is hard, but possible.


Sincerely, A Malik 'Don't let your past steal your present and don't let your present, shake your future'

zainab said...

do you know where can i get a copy?

Chick Flick Journal said...

i should definitely start reading this book

Anas84 said...

a3rf wayed shareena ! bas men esma chenna mo shy
shlona men ketab?

Butterfly Chick said...

Malik..
Wow.. you amaze me day by day when I see ur comments :).. I like how you think, how you reply and the fact that you read!
So your saying its somehow related to "men from mars women from venus"? I read this book and I honestly loved it ! Loved it so much! I read it long time ago and its still one of the favorite books I read!
Maybe true not all male wud marry strong personality, but I believe women shud have a strong personality! I mean most of us weak when it comes to love! We shud stand up and stop being weak! Guys sometimes get bored of girls running after them in the name of love! calling them and nagging! its a bit annoyin and I am not saying I haven't been there!
You sure can take any relationship slow.. I guess taking it slow is better than rushing things up.. But again you have to see whether this is going slow to reach somewhere or whether it is just going and reaching no where! Most of us shud ask themselves this question and really think about it! At least this is what I am trying to do now :) !

Butterfly Chick said...

Zainab,
You can find it in jashanmal or virgin in city center or seef :) I dun remember from where I bought mine :$ lol

Chick..
Join me ;)

Anas..
So far its a nice book.. To be honest I didnt read ela few pages so I cant tell now.. But I guess its nice.. Many people said why men love b*tches is nicer so perhaps you can start reading the older book if ur interested :)

amalikrunner said...

Hi, Butterfly. I'm glad you are amazed. We are always amazed by someone, something, somehow and somewhere.... everyday..

I hope you and your family are doing not well but G-R-E-A-T! :)

Our mind is usually changed through our own experience/s in life, the way we preceive everything, the way we feel, and where we are heading and where we want to be are all influenced by our past, present and a vision of our future.

Yes it is related to 'Men from mars and women from venues (Thanks for the title) - Ofcourse females should practise having a strong personality as the world is full of animals some males and some females and we must all be careful and ready and prepared.

Not all males. I loved that when my x-wife use to do it - I'd do things to make her do it more :P anyway that's long time gone :)I'd do the same in return though.

Yes, as the following saying 'I may be slow but at-least I am moving forward, not still or backwards'

Every journey, every meeting, two beings always have a destination and every destination comes to an ending, whether we want it or not.

Great - do you know the key to all our answers is opening the box of questions in within us.

Great luck to you - Books (some) can change our lives. The books which changed my life are:

The Secret - The law of attraction - and firstly was Life outside the ring by Hulk Hogan - and many self developoment books and books by people who achieved dreams and struggled like 'Nelson Mandela' etc..

Sincerely, A Malik 'You can have anything you want if you are willing to give up the belief that you can't have it'

Butterfly Chick said...

Malik..
Thanks dear, me and my family are really doing great here :).. I hope the same to you..
Emmm, I wonder why my mind doesnt change through my own expreience :P.. I always give people second chance although I gave some second chances and it never worked! yet I dun regret giving them that chance and I dun regret that I am still doing it :) but yeah we sure are influenced by our past!
Not all males are what? lol I didnt get it sorry? anyway I am sorry for what happened between you and her ..
True.. Books can really change our lives.. The secret changed many people's lives I believe! I dunno why the hell I am not reading it :P! I heard a lot abt it but I dunno why I am not buying it to be honest! I will rethink about buying it :P maybe when I finish reading the books I have and yeah I still have like emmm 5 6 7 8 9 10 books that I didnt read yet :P lol
Lately I am more into novel.. I love Jodi's books she is so amazing.. But I am trying to go back to self development books now .. Wish me luck with it :P

Anonymous said...

You are most welcome. I am great despite challenges and family well, who knows family in today's time of world? :)

We're all just different and our minds and bodies and understanding works different, that's all. It's great to forgive and give chances, it never hurts :)

Influenced by past, sure but don't let your past, ruin your present and your present, shake your future :)

Not all males (I was referring to statement you said that many males get bored if the female starts constantly going behind them)

It's okay, I am not sorry for what happened :) What has to happen will happen, whether we want it or not, whether we like it or not, whether we wished for it, or not..

Don't just try, just do it :) go buy it.

Okay, /me wishes you luck :)

Sincerely, A Malik 'I saw a star in the dark night'

Butterfly Chick said...

hahahaha I have many books to finish ! I will buy it inshalla when I read all the books I currently have :P
so let me get this.. you dun get bored if the women kept chasing you and calling you like 24/7? oh come on :P I know some girls can be really boring in doing this lol but yeah ur right, not all men!

thanks for wishing me a good luck :).. same to you dear!

amalikrunner said...

Okay :)

Sure I wouldn't, but that's me.

You are welcome - Thanks. I'm sure I'll be needing many of it (The luck)

Sincerely, A Malik 'Your destiny may be written, but you have the power to make changes' :)

r.alsharif said...

The tit;es catchy :p

Butterfly Chick said...

Malik..
You are welcome dear :)

R..
lol it is :P you can start with why men love b*tches.. it came first